Why Being Yourself Is The Ultimate Trend

In a world that screams “Fit in!”, it’s okay to scream back “Nah, I’m good!”. 

Today, standing out is the new blending in. Brands are ditching cookie-cutter approaches, and influencers show off their messy sides. Why? 

Because realness is rare, realness is relatable.

Being yourself is like when everyone is obsessing over Squid Games on Netflix but you are just binge-watching Instagram reels on how to make a 5 minute meal that does not taste like cardboard. Different? Yes. Awesome? Absolutely.

What Does It Mean to Be Yourself?

Being yourself does not mean you have to be a rebel or go against the rulebook just for the sake of it. It means understanding your unique traits, your sense of humour, and your quirk (or kwurk, if I may). 

Here’s how that plays out in everyday life:

Owning your quirks

You might have a habit of singing (badly, lol) while doing the dishes. I, for instance, always do a mini-opera every time I yawn. Sure it’s weird, but it’s also me.

Diving into your obsessions

It is okay to head dive into a full-blown conversation about dinosaurs at a party or wonder aloud if Sunitha Williams has mastered the art of 'me time'.  Sure, some might zone out but others will be drawn to your enthusiasm. 

Setting Boundaries 

Being yourself also means saying “no” to something that does not align with who you are. If you are not someone who loves to party but loves quiet nights with a book, own it. 

Address the Judgement

Here’s the thing: whether you are binge-watching K-dramas or leading a book club about conspiracy theories, someone will always have an opinion. Letting go of judgement may lead you to find your true tribe.

It is often easier to pretend to be someone else than to embrace your true self. But here are some simple ways to challenge that myth: 

1. Start Noticing What Makes You Unique - maybe it’s your love for spreadsheets (even when it’s not required) or your ability to memorise random facts about penguins. Celebrate them instead of brushing them off. Write it down, or share it with a friend.
   
   Why it works: You shift from seeing your quirks from weird to valuable.
   
   
2. Reframe Your Perspective: What you might see as a flaw, someone else might see as fascinating. That awkward laugh? It’s probably the reason people find you approachable. 
   
   Why it works: Changing the narrative helps you see your quirks as strengths in disguise.
   
   
3. Laugh at Yourself (in the Best Way)
   
   Humour is a powerful tool.  Singing off-key with car windows down? Turn it into a mini-concert.
   
   Why it works: Humour diffuses self-consciousness and turns insecurities into endearing traits. 

At the end of the day, being yourself is a way of life. 

Next time you catch yourself trying to fit in, remember this:  When we first saw Superman with his underpants on top of his pants, it seemed strange, but that quirky fashion choice has become an unforgettable part of his identity. Today, it’s hard to imagine Superman dressed in any other way. 

Likewise, you do you, own your quirk and make it iconic!

Unconventionally yours,

Keerthanaa
Founder, kwurk